This was the question i was discussing with my friend the other day..we jus had this random topic on why how and who should actually write..?? so I was jus telling him..or rather asking him if there were any pre-set qualifications or qualities for someone to write something..
So whats the deal in here..why cant someone just take a pen and paper and jus start writing.. or in this technologically equipped lifes of ours..why cant we jus open Microsoft word and jus start typing.. why why why?? Or should it be why how and who?? Why do we look forward for only the people whom we know to appreciate our work..why don’t we give others a chance…
This was one argument..tht u know the people who matter might not like our work..
The second argument was tht of the language barrier.. we feel that we are not good enuf in the language or rather its VOCABULARY as he puts it forward.. we jus don’t give it a shot in the frt place and we jus brush away by saying tht we are not good enuf to write as we r nt really strong with the vocab of the language.. I can proudly write or openly comment on this because I have overcome all these apprehensions now.. im not denying the fact that I never had these apprehensions..
Tried telling him the same..dnt make a difference..hope the written form of communication of the same idea would help him rethink his stand on such kind of apprehensions…
Hi its been a long time since I have come up with smtng onmy blog..bull shit this is the way everyone starts and even I started a couple of my posts like dis…but this is nt how I wanted to start this time around ..bt to gt into the flow I had to start with smtng like dis..anyways..now that I have finished college I have more free time..i had a lot of free time in college also but that time was taken care off by all the awesome things that we guys could do together…now that none of them are there I have so much free time that I don’t know wat to do…its really very boring to come back home after u have gt used to an awesome routine..and more awesome people..i would illustrate upon those ppl soon below ..but thanks to them I had so much fun in a place fr almost a year and a half…the same place which I was bent against on going…I said 1 and a half yearbecause almost the frst 6 months of college I was running home having some or the other crap reason..my roomies and a few frnds in buldhana would agree to this fact…bt the point was that I wasn’t able to have so much fun I had at home before I went to NICMAR…nor did I cm back to hyderabad and have as much fun as I was having before in hyderabad..jus the hope that the friends that I had back here would be the same…bt then life started to be far so much fun that college became home away frm home fr many of us…started knowing each other..then frm then on it was no looking back…we had done some of the most craziest things ever.. then the time fr summer internships had come and even before we could start being serious…luckily fr the most of us we gt placed…and then another party season started before we parted ways fr a 2 month duration fr doing our summers…but in the time between going to summers and coming to the college hostel..it was an awesome journey…
Season 1 : HOSTEL NO 1 LOTUS..ROOM no16..undoubtedly one of the most happening room fr some of us..we had a blast in this room.. we met new people made new frnds of which some of them are the closest frnds ill ever make in my life…never thought we wud be so close frnds with them(I think the person/persons whom I am referring to in this context will definitely have a smile on his/their faces )…then out of room no 16 we had major fun on the court…the BASKETBALL COURT…I started playing ball in my UG thinking that I can grow tall and become thin..in ug neither of the two happened…so now here I come to college and then see a basketball court(1/4th)..wat say pareekh?? I was so happy that here I gt another chance only to loose my weight(gt real and understood the fact that I cannot grow taller anymore…)…started playing ball…agn …and succeeded to loose some weight also…bt I made some more frnds again in the court..had lot of fun on the court and off it pullin eachothers leg..also trying to impress the new chick on the campus..who we later learnt was the daughter of a TOP NOTCH OFFICIAL in college ..
PS: Identity of the official hiddenfor obvious reasons.. ..(bt do u think u cannot guess who I am talking abt..then u guys are DUMB..this refers to the NICMARIANS who read my blog)..
Then again the same old routine of planning in the evening on what to do ??? never came up with anything then we always had the option of having a GOOD TIME..
I don’t know about others in college…but our idea of having a GOOD TIME most of the time was to have a LIQUID DIET in the night.. ;-)..who knows intellect parents might read the blog..so let them READ BETWEEN THE LINES…as they always say..people become frnds very easily over daaru or cigarettes…I completely vouch fr that..it is a unwritten fact that people can become frnds very easily via a LIQUID or a GASEOUS MEDIUM…many of my frnds would vouch for the same…
Then came the time fr the first season end where we all had to part ways to do our interns..but I think I dint realize much tht we are leaving..as we all knew the fact that we are going to b back in a couple of months time and then we are going to gt back to having a blast…so it was fun again to actually go tell ppl bye and stuff…
SEASON 2: college started fr a few and the days to laze agn for the most of us in college…now we are seniors..juniors started coming in…so dint really know the time…but the best part that could happen in this time was DEFINTIELY NT SMS…a group as we were known…we took this name only with a sole reason that we wanted to humiliate a certain individual.. and u know that is the best part ..all the people in here really dint care what others are gonna think or what the individual in discussion would even think…as we say TAKE LIGHT BAAP…we never really cared..then one of the the best journeys of my life started…frm a group we strtd becoming frnds and now we are CLOSE FRNDS and now we call “OURSELVES” VEGETATIVE PROPASALS…and the best part was the second name which we gave ourselves is also to humiliate the same individual…he thought he was being sold like a VEGETABLE and a few were trying to make a PROPOSAL out of it…but nevertheless…we had fun not only in pulling others leg but also our own..none of us were spared by the others without being literally teased to the core by all the others…but our slogan was …DIL PE MATH LE…HAATH MEIN LE…
But we as close frnds had a lot of fun.. we call ourselves as close frnds..the others called us a gang..we don’t care again.. …we did some of the craziest things that none of us would have done before…we were happy with ourselves and with anyone who could match upto our wit..(sometimes stoop also..u have attitude..then we have three fingers fr u..u can READ BETWEEN THE LINES was our thing…)…
VEGETATIVE PROPOSALS (the order below is nt of any type jus random..)
BAIKUNTH NATH SINHA aka His ““ EXCELLENCY.. ;-): He was the eldest amongst us and the coolest..one guy who wanted to do all the crazy stuff but stayed back because of his AGE ;-)…he was a sport and boy did he take jokes so light…was never had a problem to actually adjust with him…bhai u were just the BEST “VINTAGE” Style..
VINAYAK P L aka PRABHU SIR r NEE YAMMA: He was my first friend from NICMAR…we were doing crazy things right frm the start..u go with him with a plan and never need to think about an alternative as he is never going to say no…and the moment he gets pissed im telling u gt ready fr some pucca oriental gaalis and super blows…had some of the most treasured times with him..we had a temple and we were the devotees of the frst order…TOONS…was our temple and god did they play DEVOTIONAL MUSIC…
SHREEMANTH R SAHUKAR aka DOZER : I can say one thing abt this giant ..he completely proves the proverb FIRST IMPRESSION IS THE BEST IMPRESSION wrong..my first impression about this gigantic monster that he was a neat decent guy..but boy was I horribly wrong..another monkey of a bigger size..ready to do anything and everything at possibly anytime..all u need to give him is an assurance that u r going to gt HEAVENLY FOOD and that HE IS GOING TO LOVE IT…always ready…and also he took up the job of waking me up in the mrngs only fr the fun of it..dude will never spare u fr ur JOVAN MUSK attacks..
MAHIMA aka PINKU: She is like the balance fr our group..responsible and serious by appearance bt a complete monkey at heart…will be ready by herself bt thinks a lot about others,..can never be selfish …she had the misfortune of waking me up early and…she did had to PAY a heavy price fr tht…at the hutch office and also wakin me up…
SHILPA aka EDI or BHUKKAD: She is the WING WOMAN of the “V” BROTHERS..FOOD FOOD FOOD…and she is ready fr anything..was on fr every plan we made and she used to make sure tht she is going to gt what she wants…be aware that the frst thing she is gonna ask u is ur birthday..she doesn’t really care a damn about what ur name is…. ;-)..
MEERA aka AAHAT: She is gonna suddenly come with long flowing hair to scare someone in college..nt her intention only her action… ;-)..always on fone..bt ready with a counter right on ur face..frank …she isn’t able to shootback a reply..her LONG SCARY NAILS come into action.. ;)
SHIVA aka REDDY aka GYAAN KUMAR (GK): Reddy Vinayak and me came to this place together..if we were the monkeys he is the trainer..a responsible guy…ready to do anything bt thinks a lot about the pros and cons..if he is arnd u can see a hand up in the air..dont know why ;-).. a serious guy bt damn fun to be wth and an expert cook..never gave the chance fr the girls to cook..neither did the grls know how to cook ;-)…
GOGIREDDY aka GOGI: Sleep at 9 30 pm gt up at 545am in the mrng go to college and dnt drink anything but coffee or water in liquid form is how he came to college…dnt sleep before 2am in the mrng still gt up at 7 in the mrng..fuck coffee lets have GREEN APPLE is howhe left college..changed human …he was another cool but silent sort of a guy…
VINOTH aka SAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAR..please read the same..: what can I say abt this absolutely lethargic mass…he made the third V…and we were called V-Cube…Teased a lot by many..bt we are proud of it..damn determined guy to never stop TRADING…u give him a hot chic to date frm morning to 3:45 pm in the evening..he is jus going to let her go..all Indians are his brothers and sister tll 3:30..after 3:30 no sisters ;-)..once he gets into his FULLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL MOOD MACHA mode…god save u..u can be rest assured that u are going to have an awesome time in a short time…
SAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAR , ME and PRABHUSIR had some “ROLLING ”times in some Fivestar range hotels..wat say ;-)…
If hostel was our home…our SINCITY was the second home fr VEGETATIVE PROPOSALS…that was where an exact replica of ppl like us were staying..
SIMILARITIES:
1.Never come to class
2.Sleep late get up Late..
3. Idea of having a GOOD TIME…u need to have daaru on the list..
So it dint take much time fr us to become frnds..and then close frnds.. now we had almost all kinds of ppl…
JASIM aka MOTE , MUMMY, : the best host anyone can gt to meet…cal him anytime and say dude we r cmng over he is on and makes sure that all of us hve a gr8 tme…hardly me tthis guy in college…met him at yogis almost most of the time..and when we meet him at yogi only one sentence.,…SHAAM KO GHAR AAJA…tats it and we were set fr some rocking time…
ABHISHEK PAREEK aka YO aka BITCH : ths guy looks like an attitude personified guy …bt trust me he is a damn chilled out guy..no attitude…u r ready to gt ur ass fucked and take my case..come lets be frnds is his motto…one of the guys who used the word BITCH most “inappropiriately” bt at the right time..MY TEAMMATE fr the basketball team and a FRIEND…
WAEEZ aka WAZ: we dint have much time to give him a very trendy name is because most of the time HE WAS ON TOP… please understand and read… MY frnd and COLLEAGUE ;-)…calm bt explosive..has one of the best collection of music..in college…
APARNA aka KAAMWALI: she is the BOMBSHELL…nt the heroine types bt ready to explode types..one person who definitely had to be a guy…ifsomeone said god made a mistake and u r in fr the argment…here is the CASESTUDY ;-)..one helluva sport when it comes to taking jokes..
I would be doing a grave mistake if I wouldn’t be taking some of the other very good frnds I made in college…
BOSCO aka SMART BOY: one of the frst persons I met in college… we started our college journey together..sat together … had loads of fun together…being Planning rum nights with bosco or discussing PAPERS with him and baiki it was all fun…one of the most VERBALLY ABUSIVE guys I have ever met in my life….u have something to say and he has a WACKY reply fr it…has a gr8 MARKET VALUE in college..bosco u know wat im talking abt…
TEJASWINI aka NIKKI: she is one of the coolest girls I have ever met… no ego …no problems type…she and me had to do assignments together…bt did she do all of them alone..nt me not my other group mates helped her… all my moral support was alwys wth her ;-)..bt still she is a very close frnd more than jus a classmate..
SA”MBA”(likes to be called so): my FRIEND PHILOSOPHER GUIDE types in college…he was a terror fr many..nt really for the close frnds of his…
,Harsh Gajaria, Shreedhar, ,Ansari, Satyajit, Aabha(actually!!!), …and a few othrs pardon me if I dint tke ur name..it is only because im writing this post at 2 in the mrng in a half dazed state nd not because I dnt consider u to be my frnds…
Im sure all of us had funin our own ways, teasing satya abt pasting notices and changing his name to mayuresh fr many of them in college or trying to understand the strange gaalis ansari gives..or this was the most difficult part trying to convince harsh that my NIGHT RIDER(my avenger) is all fine..…they all were fun….
Im going to miss all of the wild things we did together and also all u guys…
Another reason why I took sometime to actually come up with a post after college was also another post actually I wrote but wasn’t able to save it…I worte that abt college even before I was leaving that place on the day one of my closest frnd in NICMAR left…then many actually told me to write it immediately…but I thght I wanted time..if I jus write it again immediately ..ill jus try and remember what I have written earlier…but I knew that I wouldn’t be doing justice to wat im writing..so I thght ill take sometime to write..i dint plan to write today..jus opened my laptop and started writing….
Im going to miss this place like anything…and im sure that the life is not going to be the same as it was fr all of us together…I had some of the most cherished times and made some of the closest and friends forever types of frnds in this place…
I can tell u guys that my life is not going to be the same again…thank u and miss u ,…
yet again..with some wierd ramblings at a wierd time...was jus going thru a frnds facebook profile i gt an idea why dnt i write something..even before i could think of something i typed the address in the address bar..so the basic point is i dnt know wat am i planning to write about..actually its nt so wierd..half the people talk without havin a clue of what they r talking abt...so i guess im in tandem...gosh when am i going to be different...so as i was saying...is it only me who feels like writing at wierd timing r is it everyone...my last post was on dec 31st when the whole world is partying and i was trying to stick around with my books..and the one before tht was when i was jus abt to go into the interview room..or is it because of our college EXTRA SMART IT PRO's that sites like bloger.com are unblocked at wierd timings...so is it my wierd sense of timing...or someones illogical sense...whatever...i am jus havin a smile on my face when im writing this so tht shd be a good thing fr me...so why is it so important that we have to do things at the right time...what does punctuality exactly mean???? can someone please tell me tht....there are many people out there shouting its very important to be punctual..i just ask them one thing..wats the point...see i see it this way...as long as u r happy with what u r doing...timing can jus take a back seat..and im sure the majority of them would definitely agree with me..who likes to do things on time..fr eg: who would like to gt up on a chilly morning jus to make it in time fr class...im sure nt even the prof who is supposed to take the class would like the idea... jus on a ligheter note....
here wishing u all the people who r nt havin exams a happy new year and fr all th ppl who have exams("determined" nicmarians) all the very best...this by far has been the most absurd wishes i have given to nyone..why, thanx to an individual who thinks an exam on the jan 1st will keep us focussed...ya right...i think the exam ill be giving on jan 1st would be the most unfocussed exam i would be givin...thanks again... fr keeping us unfocussed ;-)...jus thght ill vent my feelings out thru my ultra fast paced keyboard(a select few would understand this)... jus on lighter note...
This is really a very weird time to actually come with something on my blog..especially when I have not been up with something on lighternotes.com. I am heading for an interview in about 3 hrs frm now and I don’t understand how to remain calm…more so because of something which I have been waiting for is making me wait longer… I don’t understand if it is reallyworth the effort..or am I just taking “too much load” as all the mumbaikars call it to be….it is the natural tendency of mine to get anxious…but only for two things as my frnd categorizes them to be…. Exams and an interview….i ask him are the other things really worth the effort to have a long face and not being able to have the fun which u never know when u r going to lose…. This is that period of the time in my college life where I have been losing my temper but trying to remain calm.… sometimes I have burst out but sometimes I think I have taken it well…. Will there be any other instances in life where we have to stand at the crossroads…. I know the answer and is a definite yes…. This is not a very well drafted one where in I made sense or even if I am trying to… I dint want to study so I though this isthe best way to keep myself occupied and at the same time nt feel tensed..…but these are the thoughts that are running thru my mind…
A Brief Break in the Flow of the writing off tension moments…
This is like after some help extended to frnds (ofcourse through external sources…) I am back to jus blog my tension off…. I am still confused if this is tension, confusion,irritation, frustration or jus the excess feeling of being JOBLESS ;-)….. frnds say that I look very strange when I have tht lost look on my face….when I myself tease others fr doing the same…this is all what is exactly going through my mind…or might just if I have to face 2 ppl whom I even don’t know, are all set to gauge me on a scale of again I dnt know what… I am sitting in a room of people who are all set to go into the room to give in their interview…They all have a smile r I shud say an inappropriate laugh on their face except fr a select few… is it just the natural smile r the one they give to ppl to make them feel comfortable..(I don’t completely agree to it.. they say tht to themselves so tht they can wear off their tension… nevertheless a good thing to do..at the right time..).. so what do I do now?? Have a smile on my face r just act of one…how do u think I shd take it forward…. Comments welcome…
Everyone by now must have been aware of the heroic deeds of our very own Ram Sena activists( sorry if the name is wrong, actually im not coz i care a damn). I started off writing abt di because i wanted to know how many of us would actually approve of the atrocities that these idiots have done a few days back in Mangalore. These idiots must nt have heard of the word globalisation. India and Indians have been talking a lot abt globalisation. Where were these people when these things were being discussed about. The world is changing and so definitely is India. These kind of people talk about the injustice being done to their religion, by other religions in killing people and torturing them in different place. They boast about themselves that they r the actual followers of the Hindu Tradition. But i fell they missed out on a very small thing that hinduism doesnt approve of harming children and ladies. They think barging into a pub and dragging out all the girls in there and beating them up would actually help them prove themselves as the actual followers of customs and traditions. i fell that is stupidity on their part.
If such kind of people are on one side of the discussion, then the other side are the patrons of an emotion called LOVE. They think reacting to them in the form of sending Pink Chaddis would solve the problem. That is stupidity again because i feel they r only wasting money by buying these because these idiots would as well start using them, thinking they r nt going to be seen because they r going to wear a saffron pant on that(bad dressing sense saffron pant????). The agitation that was started a few days back ,The Pink Chaddi Movement, do u think is going to help. I dont think so. There are many other sensible ways in which people could actually revert on this issue. Definitely not in the form of sending Pink chaddis. There hve been many politicians raising their voice against this but how many of them actually gt into the root end of the problem and saw wat exactly has to be done....I myself did nt know about the revolutionary revolution of pink chaddis untill it was brought ahead by one of my professors in the class. There was a good discussins that followed about that ..would love to see what action would be taken, if the people who discussed the matter in the class would be given the right to take a decision. But my biggest doubt is were was Raj Thackeray when all dis was happening his sena is a kick ass one...Ill give out my view...i guess they must have planned on a rampage..but jus backed out because after the mumbai massacre he was nt in a position in dealing with the problems of india...he gt an naswer as people frm other states came to mumbai's rescue during the uneventful three days, that he started concentrating on other countries now....Good Job Raj... jus on a lighter note.......
It has been a long time since I have written about anything. It was not due to lack of time r anything like that.It was only because i was doing all useless crap and did not know the time at all.Need to agree that i had been having a very good time doing all that.The idea about writing about what i am going to write now started in the place called"tapri" in pune. I was jus sitting with a group of friends for wat we call chai discussing about my seniors placement in a good company. Happened to talk to the senior that evening. He told me about the procedure that was followed by the company in deciding that he was fit for the job. then he told me that they had a group discussion round too. The group had to discuss how two movies had an impact on the Indian society and the Indian Financial Market. The movies happened to be Fashion and EMI.. So i thought how can these two movies have an effect really on the Indian Financial Market primarily. Then started a good healthy long discussion of wat really a GD comprises of.. I said that GD is a place where we putforth our viewpoint on any topic that has been given to us..it can be any inferences that we have been making of it, or they can be any suggestions we can make about a given situation and so on and so forth... but in this given case i felt this topic was just pointless because both the movies fr me made no contribution towards the indian society(definitely fashion because i have seen it and it is only a movie made fr dragging audiences by making the models wear skimpy clothes and trying to portray reality by showing a stupid dress malfunction through kangana ranaut)..Then phat comes a dialogue "Brother that is nt what u are supposed to do in a GD"...tried to relent against the dialogue but the person had already started what i can call a small crash course on how to talk better in a gd in half an hour by two of my good friends and batchmates in pune..learnt that a gd need not be really what u think about that topic but can also be how u adapt to that situation and try to make sense out of it even if u don't really believe in the topic...so it can be said that it is just how u r going to make urself heard out in a group of people...u need to put urself in others shoes fr really becoming an effective speaker atleast in GROUP DISCUSSION....i gt up that day having only one doubt in my mind...How can u make sense when u r nt talking as urself??..but then convinced myself that sometimes u need not make sense when the prime motto of the talk show is to just make ur presence felt....
But i can tell u that day in the tapri the guy who had a lot to take back is the Tapri owner cause we were continously talking and frgt that we were repeating the words " a chotu ek aur chai" more than anything else...... Jus on a lighter note....
